SOLDIERS' WIVES.

New Zealand Herald, Volume LII, Issue 16025, 17 September 1915, Page 10

SOLDIERS' WIVES.

Sir,lt seems only right that both sides of any case should be stated. Personally, ever since m%- husband left New Zealand, nearly a year ago, I have always received my allotment 01 his pay promptly, either on the first or second at" the month, never later. The proper course to pursue to obtain the extra shilling a day granted by the Government was quite clearly stated in the newspapers. I applied, as directed, at the Defence Office, with proof of marriage; I was treated with every courtesy,, and informed that the extra allowance . would be forwarded with the next pay.: this I received, as stated. Many wives perhaps did not see the instructions in the papers. * This is where better-informed persons could easily have helped, by telling them: the proper "way to obtain their allotment, and so have saved much disappointment and bother. I do not think any sensible woman would object to having to prove her marriage, as there must fee some safeguard against imposters. There is a portion of the public who talk loudly of their patriotism and the need of looking after the soldiers' dependents . but who do nothing practical towards that object. Instead of talking, they should help those dependents who are able and desire to do so to obtain something to do towards earning a little to help to provide sufficient food for hungry, growing children. In England and other countries soldiers' wives are given preference in sewing and other work required for the equipment and comforts, etc, of the soldiers. If this were done the wives would be able to keep their self respect, and not. be humiliated by charily. Their husbands are fighting . and giving their live* for the liberty of the nation. Should not their dependent* also be allowed to help to earn enough to prevent the children being called "charity children?" At present many suffer from this slur. Oar lives "would be almost intolerable, with the stress of anxiety for news and struggle to make ends meet, were it not for the many good, kind people who never seem to tire in giving help and comfort whenever they can. The Girls' Realm. Civic League, and ether ladies are amongst those who kindly do everything possible to brighten the lives of those less fortunate. Those medical men and dentists who attend our children gratis also confer a benefit ■which our gratitude can never repay. I do not think the soldiers'* parents who are forming a league would * wish to debar wives or children of any recognition. A Soldier's Wife.