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Guide to Failure If you want to fail in a marriage relationship, be guided by your selfishness. Put your business, hobbies or addict ions before your partner. Consider the children a nuisance and a bother. Let your desire for other men or women become greater than for t our partner. Never tell your partners how you appreciate t heir care and attention for you. II you do all these things and your partner still lives with you, you really have a gem. Divorce Seldom the Answer 1 livorce is a blind alley in most cases. Certainly there are some decidely mismatched couples or situations where, one partner has undergone a specific change of character which makes for incompatibility. But in most cases it is an excuse and part of the growing opting out. of a difficult situation. There are few people who are unloveable, if we have the will to do so. On the other hand if we are fickle and always see other paddocks as greener or decide, we will no more humble pie, we would fail many relationships—not, only marriage. No other success can compensate for failure in the home. Major Promotion planned by Integrity Advisory Board The Integrity Advisory Board is made up of a group ol concernedpersons who represent a broad range of organisations and attitudes in the city, 'these people are concerned about the decline in standards in family life, education, alcohol abuse, rising crime rates, violence on television, unemployment, exploitation, bias and prejudice and our city’s moralThe. Integrity’ Advisory Board has a policy of action to provide help to promote and encourage the positive influences on our city life. The policy is to offer help. but. riot to impose it. The Board plans to provide the opportunity for all similarly is concerned individuals and groups to integrate their efforts to create a more caring Christchurch. This integration relys on unity. For in unity there is strength, combined co-operation to defeat growing fragmentation and disintegration. To contribute to better Use and application of the city's manpower and resources. An Integrity Centre has been established. The centre is a source of information for all groups- and .individuals committed to creating a more caring Christchurch. It is a centre where, groups can meet, share and plant. They can share their experience for t he assistance of others, and t heir successes lo encourage others. Problems can be shared so that all can contribute to overcoming them. This newspaper page is the first in a series on the subject of marriage. The Integrity Advisory Bolird sees marriage as the firm foundation for a concerned society committed to raising standards in all areas that will contribute to a better quality of life. Subsequent pages will expand on this subject. Information to be published w ill be. drawn from a wide variety of sources. If you would like to contribute to the effort being made by the Integrity Advisory Board, please send your comments or suggestions Lo f’.O, Box 10.-71, .Armagh. '' \\ A crisp, fresh ' \ \\ look, that loves ' > \ _V a sunny day. vBL f; In Biscotte; Bone, ' Black, Red, and Green Ki $37.95 N.Z. Made Available now at C.M. NICHOLAS LTD 86 WORCESTER ST Phone 63-633