"DEVOID OF COURTESY”

New Zealand Times, Volume LI, Issue 12022, 27 December 1924, Page 11

"DEVOID OF COURTESY”

PRESENT-DAY SCHQLAHS. DISRESPECT SHOWN TO ELDERS. The lack of courtesy that is shown by a large number of present-day boys attending public schools is a noticeable feature (writes a correspondent). It may be the spirit of the age, but in many instances, it may be traced to home influence, or the need of it. There is no doubt that some boys have been taught to Consider that "Jack is as good as his master." He may be in time, if given the opportunity, but it is safe to ear the hoy who is lacking in courtesy seldom gets far in a business firm. It is the backbone of success, and the person who does not possess it cannot succeed. SOUND ADVICE. Speaking to the pupils of the Hamilton High School, Mr C. L. Mac Diarmid gave sound advice to scholars during a discourse on courtesy. He ©aid:—"l am a member of a profession which delights to give advice,", amidst, laughter, "and the question on ’which I wish to give you advice is courtesy. Very often nowadays there is a want of courtesy, not only among boys and girls, but among men and women. This is partly due to the democratic age in which we live. With all restrictions released, and being more free and easy than we used to be, not only with our parents but with our masters, the freedom has degenerated into want of courtesy, the want of feelings and respect, and of good and gentle manners. A proper respect for those whom we should respect is the very best mark of self-respect and will make us more manly and womanly. Courtesy is due to those older than ourselves, age generally deserving courtesy and respect. Courtesy is also due to those set above ns, such as our parents and teachers, and those who are our employers." The speaker advised his hearers to be courteous at school, and in whatever walk of life they went into, and urged the boys to show courtesy to all women of all ages. (Applause.)