as of his Paternal mercy and care. Shall we not then consider it our first and most important duty to dedicate and sanctify ourselves to that God whose mercies we have so richly experienced. I leave tomorrow for Mr McMasters thence along the coast to Hawkes Bay. I do not miss anything to ado to comfort, in fact I have too much and shall not travel in future with such large burdens. My rheumatism is much better. I have been at a pa 4 miles off visiting the natives. Sir George is expected up here soon but I question whether he will come as he had a touch of sciatica. Do dearest take care of yourself in my absence. Avoid being out after sunset and above all do not spend time in idle gossip or talk. It is not rudeness to employ yourself at something more profitable than to listen to others' failings & misfortunes. Keep yourself above such folly and be not influenced or controlled by any person excepting Papa & Mama. Their advice you should always receive with the respect due to their age and experience independent of being your affectionate parents. I am certain from what I see of Mrs Bidwell that she has too much good sense and independence of mind to be dictated to by any who is not cleverer or wiser than she is herself, and I trust your prudence will enable you to discover that any ladies who urge or advise you to do anything against your inclinations is not worthy of your acquaintance a single day longer after tendering such advice. I know you are easily led from a fear