TO FATHERS.

New Zealand Graphic, Volume VII, Issue 11, 14 March 1891, Page 14

TO FATHERS.

GIVE THE BOYS A CHANCE.

WE mean your boy, the little fellow you left at home this morning when you started for the store or office. Don’t forget that he nas wants as real and tangible to him as yours are to you. Remember he is no more, a born saint than you were. And if you just reflect a little you will be ashamed to think how far from it you were. Don’t forget him as soon as his ‘ good-bye, papa,’ fades away behind you. Didn’t he ask you for something—a jack-knife, a hammer, or a new slate, or some pencils, or something or other ’ If you love your boy, and wish to show him that you do, you might better forget a business appointment down town than forget his request. If he asks you for something your better judgment says he should not have, don’t be content with simply ignoring the boy’s wish, but take the time and trouble to explain your reasons. Boys, even pretty young ones, are'quicker than you may think to see a point. Always give a reason for refusal of his request, even if it is the one you too often give, that you can’t afford it. And be careful how you give that reason. If he has lost or broken his jack-knife and asks you for a new one, don’t scold him. Albeit you may give him a little lesson in carefulness, but don’t tell him you can’t afford to give him a shilling for anew one, and then, before you leave the house, pull out your cigar case and light a shilling cigar.