NOTES FOR WOMEN

New Zealand Times, Volume L, Issue 11659, 25 October 1923, Page 5

NOTES FOR WOMEN

SOCIAL AND PERSONAL Mrs Bernard Wood has arrived r rom Christchurch on a visit to her mother, Ladv at Heretaunga. Lady Ward, who has been visiting her, has returned to Wellington. . Hie Misses Giovesi, of Wellington, are, visiting Christchurch. Mrs W. Wills. (Wellington), who '*a» been spending a holiday with her sister, Miss Williams (Victoria street, Masterrion), has returned to Wellington. Mrs W. Bidwill and her daughter, Mrs O. Beetham, were in Wellington for the races Mrs Girdlestone, of Muritai, is leaving for a visit to Hawke's Bay. Mr and Mrs and Miss Sievwright have lefr for a visit to Auckland. Miss G. Oldfield, who spent the weekend in Wellington, returned to Longbush on Tuesday. The wedding took place, very quietly, at Masterton on Tuesday, of Miss Isla Ewart, daughter of Mr and Mrs James Ewart, Lansdowne. Masterton, to Mr L. J. Salvigny, of Napier. Mr and Mrs A. T. JHincock, accompanied Mrs A. A. Schofield, of Castlepoint, have left for Auckland, where they will be the guests of their youngest daughter, Mrs E. J. Gibbs, at Devonport. Mr and Mrs J. Harlen have returned to Wellington from Christchurch. Miss Williams, of the Masterton telephone exchange staff, has received notice of her transfer to Dunedin. Miss Williams has been in charge of the telephone exchange for many years. Mrs and Miss Tewsley, of Auckland, are staying at Bayes Court, Wellington. Miss Dixon, who spent the week-end in Christchurch, has returned to Wellington. Among the visitors to Christchurch are Mr and Mrs George T. Cox and MI3S Cox, of Wellington, and Mrs Mac Ewen, of Wellington. Mr and Mrs Yeats have arrived in Chiustchurch from Wellington. Colonel and Mrs Brittain, of Wellington, are visiting the south. Colonel J G. Hughes, C.M.G., D. 5.0.; and Mrs Hughes entertained a large number of members of the First Contingent for South Africa and their wives, at their residence, "Canterbury Bridge/' Island Bay, yesterday afternoon. Mr B. Ellis, of Dunedin, on behalf of the visitors, thanked their hosts foi the hospitality extended to them during their annual visit to Wellington. The death is announced of Mrs L. C. Heygate (formerly Miss net Leigh Ogle), daughter of the- late Richard J. Ogle and Mrs Richard a..len, of Christchurch (says a London correspond-, ent). The late Mrs Heygate, who was the wife of Captain L. C. Heygate, D.C.L.1., of Hindhead, Surrey, had been in failing health since 1920. She had been confined to her bed since June of 1922, and had suffered greatly during the last few months. She was buried at St. Paul's Church, Woodhouse Eaves, j Leicestershire. New Zealanders present at the funeral were: Mrs Richard Allen (mother), Mr Richard Allen (step-father), Miss Diana Allen (step-sister), and. Mr and Mrs George Palmer (uncle and aunt).; A. large number of beautiful wreaths j was sent by relatives and friends. The s little daughter of Captain Heygate,; Juliet, aged three and a half years, 's to ( live for the present with her grandmother, Mrs Richard Allen, at "The Mill House/' Fendalton, Christchurch. Mrs Heygate died on August 25th, at Brambletown, Hindhead. A concert that was greatly enjoyed, arranged by Mrs Hempton, was given at the Ewart Ward, at Wellington Hospital, on Tuesday night. Songs, duets, and elocutionary items made an excellent programme, which was enthusiastically received by the patients and staff. ! ! Those taking part were:—Mrs Hempton, | Miss Young, Miss Ranson, M. Tarbeyeff, 1 and Mr Hawkins. It was mentioned j that there was a near prospect of the; wireless set (for which a public effort I has been made, organised by Mrs Hempton) being installed, and when in place it is likely to be a great joy, for it will j be one of the best of its kind. The con- | cert party and its* organiser received a | hearty vote of thanks, and Sister Clark • entertained the members to supper. The marriage of Miss Bello Law6on, • daughter of Mr and Mrs Alexander Law- j son, Bidwell street, to Mr James H. ) George, "Glenview/'* Pahiatua, took place quietly on Wednesday last at the residence of the Rev. Dr James Kennedy Elliott. Afterwards a pleasant afternoon tea was served at the home of the bride's parents, and later Mr and Mrs George left for the north. JAPANESE DISASTER Almost simultaneously with the happening of the earthquake disaster in Yokohama, Japan, the splendid organisation for relief purposes, which has been built up by the League of Red Cross Societies; to which 52 countries, including New Zealand, are allied, began to function. Societies bordering the scene of the disaster immediately dispatched . relief in the form of personnel, foodstuffs. and clothing, and the work of ministering unto the needs of the stricken in the midst of tho devastation is continuing, and will continue whilst such need exists.

Evidence of th© utility of the Red Cross relief service was exemplified by an incident of local colour. A Wellington resident was acting as guardian to an English youth who was on his way out to take up his permanent abode in New Zealand, his parents being in business in Yokohama, Japan, at the time of the earthquake, and intending to settle in the Dominion later. On the news of tho disaster letters and cables had been dispatched inquiring for the safety of the party, but no reply came to hand. The boy duly arrived in Wellington but could bo given no definite information as to the safety or otherwise of his parents. The Wellington resident, knowing the Red Cross to be conducting relief operations in Japan, approached the secretary of the New Zealand branch of the society at 63, Dixon street, Wellington. A cable waq, immediately dispatched, on the Bth inst.. to Red Cross relief headquartern, Yokohama, giving the last known address of the parents, and asking for information as to their safety. On the 13th instant a reply was received from Kobe, Japan, stating that both were safe. Tho good news was at onco transmitted to the son, who has taken up a cadetship on a farm in Hawke's | Bay. MILSOM’b specially announces:—We are specialising in our Hairwork Department. Prdmpt dispatch given to orders. Transformations, Toupees, Switches, and every class of hairwork. Suggestions and latest designs Hair Treatment Course from a guinea. Inecto and Henna Staining, Hair Clipping, Marcel Waving, Marcel Waving Irons 10» 6d, Manicuring. Face Treatments. All toilet requisites.—MlLSOM AND CO., 94, Willis street, 'Rhone 814. —Advt. SUPERFLUOUS HAIR. Have n destroyed by Rusma. Wrinlriea and other facial blemishes permanently removed by tho famous Coman Method. Letters of commendation from ladies who have been successfully treated in my hands>x and may be inspected by those interested. All toilet treatment given. Call or send stamped addressed envelope for free literature. FLORENCE HULLEN, C.M.D.. Ba, Courtenay place, Wellington. 'Phono 22-070. Open Fridays till 9 p.m., all day Saturdays.—Advt, *

WEDDINGS AT HUTT A wedding of local interest took place on Monday afternoon, at St. James J S Chinch, Lower Hutt. when Miss Eleri Catherine Flux, youngest daughter of Mr and Mrs G. FT>ux. of Mapui, was married to Mr William George Fisher, only son of Mr and Mrs W. H. M. Fisher, of Laery street, Lower Hutt. Archdeacon Hansell officiated, and the bride was given away by her father, Mr George Flux. She was dressed in white satin and brocade, and wore a 'handsome veil, lent by her sister, Mrs L. J. Bacon, of Mapui. Her bouquet was of carnations and hothouse flowers, with silver streamers. The bride was attended by l Mis* Heggie Daniel, of Wilson street, Wellingtqs* as chief bridesmaid, who was attired in green lace over satin and a black picture hat, and carried a pretty bouquet of mauve and pink aceas, also by Misses Pearl and Ruby Fisher, sisters of the bridegroom, Iho former carrying a bouquet of Victorian posies of gold and pale, the latter a basket of primroses. Mr Harold Flux, brother of ihe bride, was best man. The reception was held at the Lyceum Hall, Lower Hutt, where sixty guests were present, and the usual toasts were honoured* After the reception Mr and Mrs Fisher left for the south on their honeymoon, the bride travelling in grey gabardine and grey hat to match. Among the many guests present were the Mayoress of Lower Hutt (Mrs W. T. Strand), Mrs (Col.) Symons, of Christchurch, Miss M. Flux, Miso Bacon, Mrs C, T. Adams, Miss Adams, Mrs Lloyd Drewitt and daughter, Mr ! and Mrs McKenzie, of Karori, Mrs Dawson and son, Miss Thompson, Mr *nd Mrs C. Gaby, of Kilbirnie, Mrs Adams, of Hautana square, and Mrs Rainey. Miss Hart presided at the organ. Two well-known families of Lower Hutt —Whiteman and Doull—were united by marriage yesterday afternoon at, Knox Church, Lower Hutt, when Miss V'era May Whiteman, eldest daughter of Mi and Mrs H. E. Whiteman, of Watnui avenue. Lower Hutt, was married to Vivian William Doull, eldest son of Mr W. Doull and the late Mrs Doull, of Taita. Lower Hutt. The bride was given away by her father, Mr Whiteman, and wore a fawn costume and vieux rose hat, and she carried a handsome bouquet, of cream and pink azaleas and asparagus ferns. She was attended by her sister, Miss D. Whiteman, as bridesmaid, who wore an apricot crepe de chine dress, trimmed with swansdown and pink roses. Her bouquet was of buff azaleas, and her hat of vieux rose. The Rev. James McCaw presided. The reception was held at the residence of the bride’s parents, and near relatives and the officiating clergyman were present. The usual were honoured. Later the brido and bridegroom left for their honeymoon. FRIENDLESS WOMEN Her experiences in travel and work in America were described in Melbourne by Mrs John Macleod. Mrs Macleod, who recently returned from a vitit to America and England, Scotland and Wales, said tile Travellers' Aid Society was a British institution, and had acquired a wonderful power in America. In San F rancisco the society had beautiful buildings, and the work was continued throughout the day and night. In fact, she found tjSlt the buildings were splendidly equipped, and the workers were paid right throughout the United States. In San Francisco aIJ the charities were combined under a common association, and "drives," lasting from a month to six weeks, were held, during which money was collected! from everybody. This money was put into a common chest, and all charities desiring help sent in their budget for the year, and money was allocated according to their deserts. Every association was taken on its merits, and the Travellers' Aid had never been refused. If there was not sufficient in the chest, the funds were distributed pro rata. They travelled from San Francisco to New York, and called at Salt Lake City, Denver, Kansas City, Chicago, Philadelphia, and other cities, where there were always representatives of the Travellers’ Aid, their bureaus being often more patronised than those of the State. A small hospital, equipped with doctor and attendants, was attached to some of the railway stations, and the T.A. workers co-operated with them. In every place she was etruck with the wonderful quality of the women engaged in the work. She also found they were all white ribboners, and that when they saw her own white ribbon, they said at once, '*l belong." In New York there were 72 workers attached to the Travellers' Aid. They provided accommodation for but eight or ten people, and then only when it was necessary to keep an eye on them. They assisted travellers, however, in obtaining accommodation outside. An important branch of their work was carried out at Ellis Island, where all immigrants were placed on arrival. When she visited Ellis Island she counted fourteen desks, representing the voluntary work of various churches and institutions at which assistance was given to immigrants. The Jews had a separate bureau, and were giving splendid assistance to their people. All the immigrants were medically examined before entering America, and, if they were diseased, were given special treatment. The last thing they received was a Bible in their own language, and she thought it was a good thing. The authorities started with their bodies and ended with their souls. Mrs Macleod related interesting incidents in regard to the protection of girls and children, and mentioned that there was a wonderful sympathy towards the Travellers' Aid Society in the United States. In England there was nothing like the organisation in America, but fine work was done in a- quiet way. It was another instance where the seeds of Britain had shown good fruit in other parts of the world.

One thing that*telephones have done is to mitigate the woes of homesick children, say* an English writer. No man or woman who ever experienced that terrible unhappiness, so unlike any other human suffering, will forget it; and they alone can realise what it means to a child, far from home and family, to place a receiver to the ear and hear familiar voices. One sympathetic woman discovered the balm of the telephone when she took care of the small child of a friend who was ill. 'The child was fond of the woman, but she dearly loved her home, and to be taken away from it almost broke ner heart. The first night was one of sorrow for nil the household. The child was quiet, but the agony she wont through reacted on all the members of a sympathetic group. The next day the child was visibly ill. The third day tho mother had a telephone installed near her bed. After that the child said "Good-night” and "Good morning" to her every day over the telephone, and was quite contented and happy. Incidentally, it had a beneficial effect on the mother to know that her little daughter was happy.

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TRAINING OF WOMEN LONELY DOMESTIC SERVANT. The second interim report of tho Central committee on Women's Training and Employment, reveiwed the position np to tho end of last year. The committee was originally appointed at the outbreak of war to administer the Queen's Work for Women Fund, but was reconstituted in January, 1920, rr to consider, devise, and carry out special schemes of work and training for women unemployed or women whose earning capacities and opportunities have been injuriously affected as the result of conditions arising out of the war." Tho committee had in hand a balance of d£9*,330, residue of the Queen's Work for Women Fund, and the National Relief Fund allocated to them a further sum of JJ518,000. These fundls were mainlv employed for the training of women for suitable peace-time occupations scholarships soheme, homecrafts scheme, domestic outfits scheme, and home makers' scheme. Most of the students obtained posts after training. It was found that the majority also remained in their posts, some reported that they had been given promotion, and others that they had obtained) better positions. The homecrafts centres was a fresh development of the committee's work, owing to depression in trade, which started in tho latter part of 1920 and became steadily more marked in its effect. The sum of money allocated by the committee for this new development was *£150,000, and they received in addition £ 50,000 from x tho Ministry for Labour, the residue of tho Women's Training Branch Vote, and later a further grant of ,£50,000.

Investigations into the previous occupations of women entering the homecraft courses revealed that the recruits for training were mainly obtained from factory workers, needle trade workers, clerks and shop assistants. In spite of careful selection, the fact that a certain number of trainees were suspended from training owing to unsuitability, demonstrated to the committee that the capacity for domestic work is not necessarily a latent instinct in women. The assumption commonly held that domestic service is an occupation which can be followed by every unemployed able-bodied woman was , not borne out by their experience. A perusal of many hundreds of letters received made it clear to tho committee that loneliness which especially in small households is apparently inseparable from resident domestic service, is the difficulty i which the women find it hardest to overcome. _ Those who v.*ere able to overcome it and remain in domestic work for nit least three months are, in the majority of cases, permanent recruits to the occupation.

i In dealing with this problem the committee express their appreciation of the i ’ part played by the majority of employ- | ers. Many mistresses realise that the j women had only had a very short pre j paration for domestic work, and that I they could in no sense be considered to Sbe experienced workers, and they fro quently made generous allowances for the timidity and inexperience which was often intensified through nervousness during the first few days in the new occupation. Many mistresses showed sympathy and understanding of the home sickness and loneliness which has proved itself to be so real an obstacle to these women, and arranged that their new servants should be given opportunities for social intercourse. "A study of the evidence/' continues the report, "has convinced the committee that the personal element is a dominating factor in the domestic service problem, and that it is in itself a psychological problem rather than merely a question of demand and supply/' The sum of .£IO,OOO was allocated for the domestic outfits scheme, and up to the end of last December 2538 outfits, had been provided, at an average cost of JS3 12a 3d. Of the total number of wo- ; men who had entered resident domestic) service by this means, 89.3 per cent, had remained in this occupation. In connection with the home makers' scheme, 21 centres had been set up, the oost of which was borne entirely by the Central Committee. Although it was not anticipated that any direct effect upon women's employment would result, from the courses, nevertheless in several of the centres from 25 per cent, to 90 per cent, of the women obtained some domestic occupation at the end of the training, and were thus enabled to find regular employment. Early in 1922 the committee, with the prospect of their funds coming to an end, and haring regard to the acute industrial distress still rife, decided to concentrate upon the home crafts and home makers’ courses, and the work in connection with these will continue so long as the committee are able to arrange new courses. Miss Bertha Harris, of Lyttelton, has been appointed lady editor of the "Lyttelton Times/' in succession to Mies Colleen Morland, who has aocepted a position with "The Ladies' Mirror," published in Auckland. Miss Cox, fourth daughter of Mr and Mrs E. V. Cox, of Napier, was united in holy matrimony at St. Augustine's Church, Napier, to Mr. John Fletcher Bingham, only son of the late Mr and Mrs M. M. Bingham, of Danno* virke DEINK VICTIM FOR 30 YEAR 3 CURED BY "DRJNKO." A GRATEFUL WIFE writes as follows :—"You will be pleased to know my husband is splendid. He tells mo he has not the slightest desire fox drink now He was a heavy drinker for over 30 years. We are all so grateful for the wonderful recovery/' Satisfy yourself that DRJNKO is a genuine cure. Write fq£ Free Booklet describing the treatment and containing dozens of similar testimonials. I will post it in plain sealed envelope. Treatment is inexpensive and easily given secretly if desired. Personal advice glady given. Address me ip strict confidence. LADY MANAGER, DRINKO PTY., 212, T., Lnmbton quay, Wellington. fPublished by arrangement.! Dustin's were successful in Winning the championship of New Zealand for best Deoorated Wedding Cake at the N.Z. Bakers' Exhibition. Order yours from Dustin’s, Ltd., Wanganui Palmerston North. Wellington.—Advt. Tinned eggs are as good as fresh if preserved with SHARLAN D'S "MOA" BRAND EGG PRESERVATIVE, One bottle will do twenty dozen. * For Children's Hacking Cough, Woods' Groat Ponfiorx&int Ooxo