EASTERN WAY OF LIFE

Press, Volume XCVII, Issue 28701, 26 September 1958, Page 2

EASTERN WAY OF LIFE

N.Z. Woman Intrigued

The Eastern way of life Intrigued Mrs W. Grant, when she was a delegate to the Pan-Pacific and South-east Asia Women’s Association conference held in Japan this month, but she was a little relieved to come back to her more English way of life when it was all over.

Members of the Christchurch branch of the Y.W.C.A. last evening heard her speak of the new habits she had to form in a country of which one of her most lasting impressions was “the tremendous heat.’ ’

Communal bathing caused her to lose any false modesty she might have had. She remembers a notice on the bathroom door which said one could only take in a flannel and soap. Once inside she was forced to adopt a new routine. First a lathering all over while sitting on a wooden stool with a bowl of hot water in front of her and then a brisk shower, followed by a long steep In very hot water.

Mrs Grant, president of the Christchurch branch of the Federation of University Women, questioned some young Japanese on arranged marriages. The young men were not at all in favour and said most strongly that they intended •to choose their own brides, but the girls were more hesitant because “We don’t get a chance to meet many boys and it is reassuring to know that there is someone who will marry you.” they said.

Parents do not force their children to marry now and the status of the woman has greatly improved although it was still first and foremost a man’s country, according to Mrs Grant. The most valuable knowledge gained by travelling outside New Zealand was to find just what position the Dominion had in the world, she said. A surprisingly large number of people still believed that it was joined to Australia, or that it was only half an hour away from Australia, said Mr* Grant

Mrs Grant emphasised at the beginning of her talk the practical job the branch associations of the United Nations were doing in helping underdeveloped countries “They should be supported as much as possible, because 1 feel that it is through their efforts we have the greatest chances of peace in the future,” said Mrs Grant.